By Judy Wright
� Be Objective-don�t take it personally
� Let them solve their own problems, unless there is danger.
� Provide opportunities to be with peer group
� Teach the unwritten rules of life & likeability
� Don�t push them to be in �the� group
� Help them find positive in every situation
� Blame, shame and focusing on the pain won�t work.�
� Watch for and teach importance of body language and facial expressions
� Help them to understand personal space
� Assist them in regulating tone of voice and laughter
� Help them develop a passionate interest in something
� Teach when approaching a group, ask someone other than the leader to join.
� Have them write a list of what they are looking for in a friend
� Have them write a list of what they have to offer as a friend
� Teach them to smile and say hello. Appear open and approachable
� Work together to give service and help others
� Remind them that this too shall pass. We all develop friendships for different reasons, when a friendship ends; it may just mean you have learned all you needed from each other, someone else will come along soon.
� Model friendly and kind actions in relationships
� Build your child up, not tear others down
� Express confidence in their ability to be a good friend and to draw others to them.
Judy H. Wright, parent educator, author and international speaker, http://www.ArtichokePress.com
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